"Yolanda," said the man at the front of the room and then he paused.
He was introducing the NAD summer interns at the NAD departmental
worship on Wednesday morning. After saying my first name, you could
tell that he was visibly thinking about trying to pronounce my last name
or not and then he decided against it.
I'm used to
people not even attempting my last name, but what I'm not used to is
people calling me Yolanda. That's always been my mom. But it's a name I
like, and it is my first name. This is a new place so I thought, why not? I'll go by Suzanne but make sure my first name is on all official-ish documents. I'll make sure people know that I'm Yolanda Suzanne.
So when I was handed a "let's get to know you better" sheet to fill out, I put Yolanda Suzanne Ocsai—my full name.
But
when people call me Yolanda, it is a bit weird and I always want to
correct them . . . but what do I say . . . "I'm sorry, yes, Yolanda is
my name, but I'd rather be called Suzanne? Yes, I know I write Yolanda
Suzanne on everything. I just like showing off my full name, but you can
just call me Suzanne. Thanks."? I don't think so! lol. Perhaps this is a
post-college identity crisis. :\ haha.
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